Destanee+Stevenson

= Write up on the Peer Mediation Process(: =  4 Critical Steps   1. Introduce everyone   2. Set the rules   3. Mediate the conflict   4. Close the mediation      List 3 points from steps 2, 3, & 4        Step 2:   1. Be respectful   2. Willing to listen   3. Be Truthful    Step 3:   1. Ask each person what happened.   2. Paraphrase what each person said.   3. Ask each person what they could do personally to solve the problem.    Step 4:   1. Thank them for working on solving the conflict.   2. Remind them that everything is confidential.   3. Tell them to tell their friends not to bring it up and that it is solved.       What is the main goal of the peer mentoring process?   To help the people with problems resolve them in a good way! To help them solve the problem and other things.     How do you use this process to accomplish the goal?   This process is a simple, neat way to resolve problems. It takes the people involved and helps them talk it out and figure how to resolve the problem. ESSAY Problem: There are 4 girls involved in bullying and writing lies on Facebook about a Freshman at girl at Minarets. She is thinking about quitting school and going to home school. The rumors have spread throughout the campus. How would you handle this situation? We would gather up all 5 of the girls. The one that is getting hurt by the rumors and the 4 that is doing the bullying. We would go to a nice quite place away form everyone. You need to set the rules that I have. 1) Listen to each side of the story.2) Respect each otherDon’t yell or shout.Be willing to fix the problem.

I would ask what the problem is and why they are doing this to the one girl. I would ask the girls how they felt. Ask them why they are doing this. We would talk about this until they have see that it really hurts people to do this. Then we could split the girls up because they are more likely to talk about it all with out there friends around. We would get them to agree on what they would do to fix this. Put it all down on the contract. Have everyone sign it. Then tell them them they need to talk to us to just come to us, rather then taking it out on others. “Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.” - Dr. Seuss   ﻿I like this quote because...It has truth in it. You shouldn't dwell on the past and cry because you can't change it. But you should smile about it...Yeah you've might have made mistakes, But they make you who you are. Every mistake defines who you are, and makes you a better person. Learn from your mistakes. = New Years Resolution  =

My 2011 resolution is to try to forget the past, and move on from the little things.

Steps: 1. Try to forget. 2. Focus on the now. 3. Don't Get wrapped up in memories.

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